Absent Friends
A memorial page to my friends who have died from AIDS
(and other causes)

Special Events Today
The following people had birthdays today:
NameBornDiedWhoCause
Doreen Veness05/19/193011/27/2022FriendNatural Causes
Jeffrey Dale05/19/196408/02/1990FriendAIDS
 
The following people had the anniversary of their death today:
NameBornDiedWhoCause
Tony McCumber12/11/195205/19/1991AcquaintenceAIDS

Cause of Death:
4Accident
105AIDS
1Alzheimer's
16Cancer
1COVID
1Diabetes
1Disease
1Emphysema
10Heart Disease
1Hepatitis B
1Liver Disease
1Mesothelioma
1Meth OD
2Murdered
4Natural Causes
1Plane Crash
2Respiratory Failure
2Sleep Apnea
2Stroke
1Surgery
3Unknown
Who They Were:
7Boyfriend/Sex partner
15Close friend (visited in hospital)
41Friend
2Friend of Spouse
61Acquaintence
22Friend of friend
5Public figure
6Family
2Family of Spouse
When They Died (when date is known):
5 10 15 20 1986 1990 1994 1998 2002 2006 2010 2014 2018 2022

161 people

Name Born Died Who Cause
Bonneau, Gilles07/26/194112/25/2002AcquaintenceAccident
Davis, Oliver  Close friend (visited in hospital)Accident
Franklund, Jeffrey12/27/196311/27/2007Close friend (visited in hospital)Accident
MacKenzie, Daniel07/21/199009/05/2021AcquaintenceAccident
Allen, Jim01/01/195401/07/1993AcquaintenceAIDS
Amadei, James07/28/194504/28/1988AcquaintenceAIDS
Bailey, Gary01/01/195111/14/1989AcquaintenceAIDS
Bardziak, Frank01/09/195411/27/1994AcquaintenceAIDS
Barlow, Matt07/11/195308/21/1992FriendAIDS
Bart, Todd Dunning12/22/196709/11/1991Friend of friendAIDS
Beals, Jerry08/09/195505/25/1991FriendAIDS
Bean, Chris09/06/195702/26/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
Bible, Chuck03/20/195309/09/1994Friend of friendAIDS
Bodenstein, David11/08/195303/18/1990AcquaintenceAIDS
Bryan, Buzz01/01/196303/07/1993AcquaintenceAIDS
Ceyrolles, Bill05/26/195104/17/1994AcquaintenceAIDS
Chamberlain, Warren10/27/194612/10/1991FriendAIDS
Chavez, Ray04/21/195311/11/1988AcquaintenceAIDS
Chelchowski, Robb09/07/195407/16/1992Friend of friendAIDS
Clement, Steven03/03/196010/17/1990Boyfriend/Sex partnerAIDS
Connolly, Richard Patrick02/23/195308/19/1989FriendAIDS
Dale, Jeffrey05/19/196408/02/1990FriendAIDS
Dant, Dante01/01/195806/09/1989AcquaintenceAIDS
Deane, David02/13/195005/31/1987Friend of friendAIDS
DeHond, Gordon "Gordy" John07/18/193802/03/1990Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
DeLima, David05/10/195911/09/1990FriendAIDS
Dominguez, Jack01/01/195612/01/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
Drum, Leo  AcquaintenceAIDS
Dwyer, Jim  FriendAIDS
Early, Ellis03/30/194712/26/1995AcquaintenceAIDS
Edwards, Bob01/01/194010/30/1990FriendAIDS
Edwards, Jr., Larry01/01/196204/04/1988Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Eisler, Michael07/28/194910/13/1991Friend of friendAIDS
Evans, Arthur01/01/196502/02/1992Friend of friendAIDS
Ferencz, Jon Trevor03/23/195101/08/1990AcquaintenceAIDS
Flippen, Ricky12/23/195612/01/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
Framo, Robert07/06/195904/25/1993FriendAIDS
Frank, Colin04/12/194105/27/1989Friend of friendAIDS
Freeman, Hal  Friend of friendAIDS
Frey, Gene  AcquaintenceAIDS
Frisch, Donald01/01/194807/26/1989Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Fromm, Richard01/01/195003/17/1990Public figureAIDS
Gale, Adam11/26/196311/28/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
Gaver, Chasen01/01/195403/11/1989AcquaintenceAIDS
Grant, Carl06/14/196304/28/1987AcquaintenceAIDS
Green, David  Public figureAIDS
Gregory, Mark Wayne10/15/195709/06/1996Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Grooms, Lucius Allen06/17/194512/03/1992Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Guarino, George01/01/196003/03/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
Hakes, Larry04/11/194211/01/1986AcquaintenceAIDS
Hall, James01/01/196212/10/2005AcquaintenceAIDS
Hayes, Peter06/02/194410/16/1990AcquaintenceAIDS
Hill, Frank01/01/195012/19/1991Friend of friendAIDS
Hovey, Chuck06/12/194805/03/1990AcquaintenceAIDS
Hughes, Bill  AcquaintenceAIDS
Jacobs, Jerry01/01/195210/16/1990FriendAIDS
Jerome, Mark02/11/196503/04/1993FriendAIDS
Jones, Hal  FriendAIDS
Jorgensen, Ed12/15/194509/12/1994Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Junghans, Michael09/23/195911/11/1990Friend of friendAIDS
Kamens, David01/01/197102/28/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
Kaufer, Michael11/05/194801/26/1989Friend of SpouseAIDS
Kavanaugh, Bob09/07/194003/16/1993AcquaintenceAIDS
Keller, Tom02/13/196303/15/1994Friend of friendAIDS
Kent, Ray12/02/195703/12/1989AcquaintenceAIDS
Killeen, Leonard Nalty02/12/196301/18/1995FriendAIDS
Knott, Dean01/01/195108/29/1990AcquaintenceAIDS
Latter, Martin Craig "Marty"01/11/195305/08/1992Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Leacock, Kent06/24/194909/02/1998AcquaintenceAIDS
Lebow, Gary07/15/196206/27/2000FriendAIDS
Littell, Bob12/03/194412/26/1993FriendAIDS
Longest, Wayne01/01/195312/12/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
Lorentzen, Stig04/15/196006/24/1995AcquaintenceAIDS
Maddix, John02/07/195112/15/1992FriendAIDS
Mazzaferro, Tom 01/13/2003Boyfriend/Sex partnerAIDS
McCreight, Bill04/13/194406/09/1990FriendAIDS
McCumber, Tony12/11/195205/19/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
McJimpsey, Jim02/16/194801/13/1996FriendAIDS
Medley, Larry01/01/194612/15/1990AcquaintenceAIDS
Morris, Julian M.01/01/194204/18/1993Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Mosher, Rick02/16/195310/09/1995Friend of friendAIDS
Moss, Phil01/28/196003/31/1989AcquaintenceAIDS
Nelson, Walt 07/15/1990FriendAIDS
O'Hara, Scott10/16/196102/18/1998Public figureAIDS
Otley, Jimmy07/21/195808/09/1991Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Ott, Steve  Friend of friendAIDS
Paglia, Ron01/22/193810/11/1986AcquaintenceAIDS
Pate, Walter01/20/195109/25/1992Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Payne, Jeff10/02/195601/01/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
Payne-Carter, David12/27/194709/04/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
Pendolino, Peter  AcquaintenceAIDS
Perry, Joe  AcquaintenceAIDS
Peters, Tom01/01/195901/18/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
Philyaw, Eugene01/01/195304/11/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
Pond, Steve01/18/195205/14/1995Boyfriend/Sex partnerAIDS
Pulcipher, Jim01/11/194908/11/1991AcquaintenceAIDS
Riveccio, Mario02/10/194904/16/1988Friend of friendAIDS
Robinson, Max05/01/193912/22/1988Public figureAIDS
Sobus, B.J.11/22/195404/01/1986Friend of friendAIDS
Sollmer, Milo03/10/195703/06/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
Steen, Fred01/01/194909/11/1990AcquaintenceAIDS
Trevathan, Jr., Henry Lawrence06/09/195704/23/1989Boyfriend/Sex partnerAIDS
Unger, Rick02/09/194608/11/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
Valle, Miguel Angel11/18/196104/02/1992Friend of friendAIDS
Van Den Broeder, Alan Elmer09/05/195303/07/1990Close friend (visited in hospital)AIDS
Walker, Keith01/01/194406/09/1992AcquaintenceAIDS
West, Rick09/15/195507/31/1990Friend of friendAIDS
Zadrozny, Ray11/23/195702/09/1987AcquaintenceAIDS
Ziemba, Stanislav C.04/01/194111/14/1994Friend of friendAIDS
Stelter, Johanna09/13/193703/30/2018Family of SpouseAlzheimer's
Bremer, Lubov09/05/192909/04/2010FriendCancer
Burton, Bill 04/09/2012FriendCancer
Byers, Monte Love03/12/195910/10/2010FriendCancer
Coile, Jr., Russell C.11/06/194311/10/2003FamilyCancer
Goode, Violet 12/20/2004FamilyCancer
Hartwig, Larry  FriendCancer
Loke, Hae-Yin04/02/196907/30/2020FriendCancer
Maruyama, Edith Adams McDonald01/09/193804/15/2022FriendCancer
McFaddan, Wendy Weeks10/17/196104/15/2025Friend of friendCancer
Morris, Susanna04/26/196001/25/2020FriendCancer
Nero, Averil01/01/193211/17/2022Friend of friendCancer
Peschel, Stan 01/18/2018Boyfriend/Sex partnerCancer
Sarvis, Martin07/06/196310/01/1994FriendCancer
Shipp, Jim11/30/192903/16/1994Public figureCancer
Taylor, Bill01/23/194407/16/1994FriendCancer
Wallace, Peg01/18/192403/20/2008FamilyCancer
Nero, James John10/19/193607/12/2022AcquaintenceCOVID
Bennet, Norah12/22/192006/02/2003FamilyDiabetes
Cline, Rob08/28/195304/26/2012AcquaintenceDisease
Selby, Alan01/01/192905/02/2004AcquaintenceEmphysema
Brannigan, Francis L.10/13/191801/10/2006AcquaintenceHeart Disease
Check, Ann Rose04/09/195504/29/1993AcquaintenceHeart Disease
Church, Jok11/28/194904/29/2016AcquaintenceHeart Disease
Correa-Berger, Bryan10/12/198309/03/2023Boyfriend/Sex partnerHeart Disease
Huffman, Andrew08/16/196012/08/2020FriendHeart Disease
Kendall, Geoffrey Grigsby03/31/195807/22/2010FriendHeart Disease
McClamma, Charles02/08/194604/19/2023Close friend (visited in hospital)Heart Disease
Mollart, Stan06/12/195202/05/2019AcquaintenceHeart Disease
Powers, Harry  Friend of SpouseHeart Disease
Rockowski, "Big Bob"12/31/195607/12/2003FriendHeart Disease
Kruthers, Philip "Phlip"07/18/195601/10/1999Close friend (visited in hospital)Hepatitis B
Dawson, Sr., Michael Kenneth01/01/195908/11/2019FriendLiver Disease
Lefitz, David10/12/195106/28/2014FriendMesothelioma
Hill, Gregory Alan03/10/196912/27/2014Boyfriend/Sex partnerMeth OD
Berg, Paul01/01/195901/09/1989AcquaintenceMurdered
Schulthise, Eric Baird09/19/196902/05/2010Friend of friendMurdered
Coile, Ellen Miller02/13/193011/10/2013FamilyNatural Causes
Coile, Russell C.03/11/191706/04/2011FamilyNatural Causes
Howe, Martina Fountain08/19/192505/01/2023AcquaintenceNatural Causes
Veness, Doreen05/19/193011/27/2022FriendNatural Causes
Cole, Robert01/01/196402/01/1991AcquaintencePlane Crash
Meroney, John06/21/195009/12/1994Friend of friendRespiratory Failure
Springer III, Joel12/11/194801/01/2017FriendRespiratory Failure
Needham, Paul05/18/196507/14/2015FriendSleep Apnea
Perez, Robert L.08/14/196402/28/2017FriendSleep Apnea
Da Costa, Tony08/02/195111/14/2011FriendStroke
Hall, Jack (John)09/13/195012/04/2019FriendStroke
Stelter, Ron03/03/196407/06/2007Family of SpouseSurgery
Bolingbroke, Richard02/28/195212/28/2024FriendUnknown
Haber, Harriet02/15/196112/15/2021AcquaintenceUnknown
Meacham, Worthie Paul04/14/196110/09/2022FriendUnknown

Life is eternal; and love is immortal;
and Death is only a horizon;
and a horizon is nothing
save the limit of our sight.
—Rossiter Worthington Raymond (1840-1918)